Yes that's very clever. History though, is pretty clear about whose boots kick down whose doors when this plays out. Very fine people on both sides though im sure.
History, and boots kicking down doors, are very old. Much older than modern "left" and "right", or whatever "sides" are in fashion where you live today
> In Yorkshire in the 14th and 15th centuries, the age range for most brides was between 18 and 22 years and the age of the grooms was similar; rural Yorkshire women tended to marry in their late teens to early twenties while their urban counterparts married in their early to middle twenties. In the 15th century, the average Italian bride was 18 and married a groom 10–12 years her senior. An unmarried Tuscan woman 21 years of age would be seen as past marriageable age, the benchmark for which was 19 years, and easily 97 percent of Florentine women were married by the age of 25 years while 21 years was the average age of a contemporary English bride.
> Ireland's average age of marriage in 1830 was 23.8 for women and 27.47 for men where they had once been about 21 and 25, respectively, and only about 10% of adults remained unmarried;[22] in 1840, they had respectively risen to 24.4 and 27.7;[23][24] in the decades after the Great Famine, the age of marriage had risen to 28–29 for women and 33 for men and as much as a third of Irishmen and a fourth of Irishwomen never married due to chronic economic problems that discouraged early marriage.
Doesn't really contradict what I said, although the age gap between bride and groom was fairly variable (but no country that I'm aware of has a pattern of older bride, younger groom).
Show me the trash, show me the tools, show me the isotopes, show me the ice cores. This is easy stuff. Sometime absence of evidence really is evidence of absence
The problem is local bullies taking advantage of people who cant leave. If you cant put a floor under peoples quality of life, you cant avoid this problem.
