Yep. The guy is not a big-time games distributor. He's a guy with a childhood collection that offered to lend it to me for a few weeks.
There were definitely mistakes made on our part. But what I really can't forgive is ... once the outer wrapper came off, my address was still plainly visible on the box.
I can't for the life of me understand why they shipped it to their undelieverable mail / govdeals.com auction site location.