Please don't take HN threads on trivial tangents, such as arguing about pronouns when the topic isn't pronouns (which admittedly can be interesting in their own right—but not like this). I get that you also said something about the topic, but that doesn't matter because off-topic provocations always win.
We detached this subthread from https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=14206390 and marked it off-topic.