> maybe it was finding common ground talking about your wife instead of your husband, maybe it was when you didn't need to wonder whether you were turned down for skill or skin color
And maybe I am a self-taught gay Puerto Rican who disagrees that gay people need special encouragement in order to succeed.
Fair enough, mu apologies for getting all Reddit-y.
I'm in the camp that at some point, everyone needs help. The unfortunate fact is, a lot of people aren't going to get the same amount of help, or even help at the right time, and they're going to fail as a result. Worse, they're not going to realize they could have done better.
When we're talking about continuing to try, and being positive and always working towards a solution, part of the conversation should ideally be that getting to that place involves something different for different people. Fair?
And maybe I am a self-taught gay Puerto Rican who disagrees that gay people need special encouragement in order to succeed.