It should also be pointed out that when you find yourself at steps 6 and 7 you don't have to sin, and when you find yourself at step 1, you can obey more complicated heuristics than DRY, like "I will apply the rule of three if the duplicated code is pretty short and not inherently self-contained" or "if this big method looks like it will change, instead of fully abstracting it, I'll just break out the bits that look like neat little functions".

You only find yourself at step 8 after a suite of bad decisions, and possibly even bad decisions that you signed off on during code review.