By that argument almost no-one's ever rejected for anything.
If a girl turns you down for a date, it doesn't matter if it's because she doesn't like you or because she just met someone she likes better than you, it's still a rejection.
Sure you have different levels of rejection, but they're all rejections nevertheless.
Precisely. Whether you're getting shot down in dating or "not being accepted" for the <x> slots for YC, at the end of the day it is the same thing-- you / your pitch are coming up short in their opportunity cost calculation.
Frankly, who gives a damn whether they like your idea if they're not willing to invest?
>Frankly, who gives a damn whether they like your idea if they're not willing to invest?
I'd have thought knowing that they believe you have a good idea, just not quite good enough would be encouraging. Whilst knowing that even if there were space you wouldn't get accepted should probably be a big indicator that you should take a step back and see if you're riding a horse or a donkey.
Similarly in dating - being rejected for someone _you_ consider a better catch is not a great problem; being rejected in favour of not having a date is far worse.
There's a difference between asking a girl out to a specific event and her saying that she's already committed that night, versus asking a girl out with an open-ended invite and having her turn you down. In both cases, you aren't taking her to the event, but in the former, you might be able to take her out the next night.
The non-acceptance of YC is like the former — it's not going to work this time, but you're more than invited to try again next time.
If a girl turns you down for a date, it doesn't matter if it's because she doesn't like you or because she just met someone she likes better than you, it's still a rejection.
Sure you have different levels of rejection, but they're all rejections nevertheless.