We have one and live in an apartment. I charge at work (free) usually and other times at a supercharger. Using a supercharger all the time slightly shortens battery life in theory especially if you do it wrong, but we do it less wrong. And Model S owners who have been exclusively supercharging have been reporting that their battery degradation is not bad at all.

The body work issues you mention are mostly in the past. And you wouldn’t be without a car.

So, red herrings.