> Thinking about the words you use in daily conversation with diverse peers doesn't have to be "robotic".

I'd much rather save my mental energy for the coding.

If having to carefully think about how every turn of phrase could be seen and completely giving up on being able to make friends at work is the price of hiring less privileged people? I'd rather stay in my privileged monoculture thanks. The underprivileged can go join the company with the underprivileged monoculture and everyone can be happier, communicating in the style they prefer with people who are ok with that style.