Being Stoic does not require one to give up ambitions, self improvement or planning. It only requires that you stay open to the good and guard against the bad.

“Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.” ~ Aurelius

"Our life is what our thoughts make of it." ~ Aurelius

"It's a rough road that leads to the heights of greatness." ~ Seneca