An analogy for you: like working with an Evangelical Christian who always assumes that your annoyance at their pestering _can only be jealousy_ that Jebus won't let you into heaven.
I mean I get it but your annoyance in this case appears to be directed at evangelicals on the internet you are free to ignore, as opposed to coworkers the presence of whom you have little choice. Maybe you are less free to complain about coworkers and so instead complain here? Either way, your complaining is no less annoying than the thing you're complaining about.
An analogy for you: like working with an Evangelical Christian who always assumes that your annoyance at their pestering _can only be jealousy_ that Jebus won't let you into heaven.