That's a false equivalence. If you shoot someone with a gun, it's reasonable to expect them to die.
It is not a reasonable expectation that someone will die when you ask them their name and tell them to put down their weapon.
You can reasonably know that shooting a person with a bullet will cause injury or death. Telling them to drop their weapon and surrender does not usually cause injury or death.
If you shoot someone, we don't say that technically the bullet killed them not the person who fired the shot.