Sending a former escort private messages about fucking her is much grosser than commenting on a very frank blog post she’s made about her experiences.

Going by post doesn't seem to indicate she is former. In the last paragraph she mentions her concerns about escorting in the future given her blog detailing the industry in this detail.

Lol if she comes back online I’ll be priced out. She’s now the favorite of VCs and HODLers.

She’s posting in the replies here so maybe she’ll say whether this feels like an affront to her humanity. Still, this conversation around why it might be icky seems philosophically meaningful.