> they never had any affairs (unlike their own parents...), and after he passed away she immediately fell into a long depression, barely a year later she was gone too
To be honest, that is rather low bar for happy relationship. It think that maybe you should believe more what they said about their own happiness then project happiness onto them when no one is looking.
I did not said a single negative thing about them. Saying that maybe they were not secretly happy, but instead they felt like they said they feel or how they looked is not a judgement.
To be honest, that is rather low bar for happy relationship. It think that maybe you should believe more what they said about their own happiness then project happiness onto them when no one is looking.