I think it's fair that a new person is needed at the helm to want to look forward to new features. A comparison with Vi only means the status quo is good enough. When we put it like this, Neovim is unavoidable. (The fork is unavoidable, but it doesn't mean the demise of the old project.)

I'm not even sure it's human nature to put it as winners and losers. Our current culture is obsessed with seeing it in this way, very much influenced by "the economy" of the wide-area societies we live in, but I'm not sure it's universal.