We once had to shop for new curtains to decorate the new home we bought together. We walked into this giant store with 500 options and I directly walk to a rack and point at my preferred choice. She's puzzled and navigates the store for a full hour only to come back and confirm it to be the most favorable choice, much to her disgust.
At restaurants, I decide in less than a minute, which puts this hilarious time pressure on the other to make a choice. It completely ruins the "fun" ritual of pondering over choices and debating pros and cons with each other.
It's not that I'm some expert fast decision maker, it's pure and raw indifference.
We once had to shop for new curtains to decorate the new home we bought together. We walked into this giant store with 500 options and I directly walk to a rack and point at my preferred choice. She's puzzled and navigates the store for a full hour only to come back and confirm it to be the most favorable choice, much to her disgust.
At restaurants, I decide in less than a minute, which puts this hilarious time pressure on the other to make a choice. It completely ruins the "fun" ritual of pondering over choices and debating pros and cons with each other.
It's not that I'm some expert fast decision maker, it's pure and raw indifference.