That’s the ‘no one is an asshole, everyone is an asshole’ type of BS that muddies the waters.
Linus has been an asshole, he didn’t have to be, and everyone agreed on that, including him.
He’s getting better at being less of an asshole.
That is what I’m referring to. It isn’t ambiguous. It isn’t ‘a bad day’. It isn’t one person getting offended about something that no one else saw. Pretending it is does no one any favors.
You don't have any control over how people perceive things, which is the point. Everyone is an asshole to someone.