I will not dignify your questions with an answer because they are a philosophical derailment. And turning the conversation into one about solipsism and epistemological nihilism is a dead end. Related to this, the simulation hypothesis is nothing but repackaged theism. Many have treaded this territory and nothing of use was discovered.
Besides, I was the one who asked first the much more pragmatic question of why some people consider such a dystopian future to be desirable.
1) What makes reality important? 2) What is the definition of reality?
> In all VR spaces you will absolutely be the product while also being milked for every single micro-transaction you can pay.
How does that differ from reality? Are you not paying for the walls that are presumably around you right now?