And even if you do quadratic operations in your handler, how often do you write a new such handler? Most of the time you work on stuff around that, supporting infra, testing, etc. None of those needs to be cache optimized either.

It was mostly meant as a example of millions of operations even at a small scale. Sadly I have seen way too much accidental O(n^3) code and not all of it could be "fixed" trivially.

> This has nothing to do with caches.

Would you rather handle 1000 request per second or 1? Caching has the potential to make an already bad situation so much worse.

> how often do you write a new such handler?

You only need to write one to DoS your server.

Would you rather like to approach this problem by optimizing memory layout which, let's be honest, tends to give you more in the region of 1-10% improvements rather than 10-100x, or would you rather like to try to go from O(n^3) to O(n^2) or O(n log n) or similar?

The real meat is in the complexity class. Cache effects are where you go when there is nothing else to optimize and it actually matters. Preemptively making all your data structures 2-3 as big because of not-actually-necessary padding does not sound right to me, but YMMV.