Wow, thank you. I am grateful that my comment attracted so much thoughtful discussion. But your comment is the one that really touched my heart.
I was reading it to a close friend just now, and I have to confess that I choked up a couple of times reading it.
So again, thank you, my friend.
p.s. You don't happen to be anywhere near the SF Bay Area? If you are (or even if you're not), please drop me a note at the email address in my HN profile.
Anyone else who is in the mid-Peninsula area, feel free to do the same. It would be nice to meet up with people who have an interest in this topic.
I also want to echo this. For me, it’s examples like yours that I live by. It seems like the right thing to do, naturally. Teaching people and sharing knowledge is the often the most rewarding part of my career at a personal level but it is hard to reconcile when it often comes at the cost of my own progression/productivity. I’m spending most of my time helping everyone else be more productive. How’d you end up working through that?
I had a similar experience in the Legal field of all things. I was only a few years in, so could still relate to and be approachable by newbies. I kept my door open (we had our own offices too!) and folks would wander in with questions all day that I would answer.
The result was that my annual review was meh. They recognized and appreciated my work helping the department as a whole, but my individual metrics were lacking.
As I had a family to feed, I just started keeping my door closed and cranking out my own work. My reviews then imporoved. I realized that the large law firm just didn't have a system in place to reward the work I was previously doing, so I adjusted to what they wanted. "There is no spoon." :-)
I was reading it to a close friend just now, and I have to confess that I choked up a couple of times reading it.
So again, thank you, my friend.
p.s. You don't happen to be anywhere near the SF Bay Area? If you are (or even if you're not), please drop me a note at the email address in my HN profile.
Anyone else who is in the mid-Peninsula area, feel free to do the same. It would be nice to meet up with people who have an interest in this topic.