I'd reframe that slightly: it's not that you are bad at using these tools, it's that these tools are deceptively difficult to use effectively and you haven't yet achieved the level of mastery required to get great results out of them.

The only way to get there is to spend a ton of time playing with them, trying out new things and building an intuition for what they can do and how best to prompt them.

Here's my most recent example of how I use them for code: https://til.simonwillison.net/github-actions/daily-planner - specifically this transcript: https://gist.github.com/simonw/d189b737911317c2b9f970342e9fa...