I grow less and less tolerant of “stuff just is, you can’t, like, judge it, man” the older I get.

A lot of people (sizeable majority?) seem to go the opposite way when they get older, so that's pretty interesting.

I’m less interested in judging most things. Started actively jettisoning that impulse in my 20s.

It’s the “pft, but that’s just morality and like that’s relative and stuff therefore we should disregard it” sort of thing that I increasingly have less patience for. I’m less quick to dismiss terms like “greed”.

Even most economists these days would agree that this is a really bad take (invisible hand). You should read more than the punchline of that Adam Smith book and you would find that even he would agree

you are inventing and projecting an argument. the op's comment is effectively "the root problem with crime is evil in the heart of man", which presents only emotional lament and no actionable content . it's handwaving grandstanding that serves only a social signaling purpose.