Using net6. I agree, performance is generally great / just as fast as its peers (i.e. Java and Go). However, if you need to think about memory a lot, GCed runtimes are an odd choice.
Primarily because you not only need to think about memory, but you also need to think about the general care and feeding of the GC as well (the behavior of which can be rather opaque). To each their own, but based on my own (fairly extensive) experience, I would not create a new DB project in a GCed runtime given the choice. That being said, I do think C# is a very nice language with a high performance runtime, has a wonderful ecosystem and is great choice for many / most projects.
Isn't the characteristic of languages like C++ or Rust is you have to think way more about managing the memory (and even more so if you use C)?
Borrow checker based .drop/deallocation is very, very convenient for data with linear or otherwise trivial lifetime, but for complex cases you still end up paying with either your effort, Arc/Arc<Mutex, or both. Where it does help is knowing that your code is thread-safe, something Rust is unmatched at.
But otherwise, C# is a quite unique GC-based language since it offers full set of tools for low level control when you do need that. You don't have to fight GC because once you use e.g. struct generics for abstractions and stack allocated/pooled buffers or native memory for data neatly wrapped into spans, you get something close to C but in a much nicer looking and convenient package (GC is also an optimization since it acts like an arena allocator, and each individual object has less cost than pure reference counted approach).
Another language, albeit with small adoption, is D which too has GC when you want an escape hatch while offering features to compete with C++ (can't attest to its GC performance however).
