Well, in the context of Lisp, `err != nil` is equivalent to Lisp's parens: if somebody complains about that, chances are their critique is superficial (and there are enough "real" problems when using Go, especially when using goroutines and channels). The amount of low abstraction Go code I write is compensated by the amount of "abstraction boilerplate" like implementing type classes by myself or letting the compiler derive, implementing newtypes, adding GADTs, adding Pattern Synonyms and Type Families to be able to comfortably use the GADTs without much boilerplate and so on. Rust adds for example the need for associated types and is generally more verbose than Haskell.
I do not see a significant difference in the amount of boilerplate needed for catching exceptions, pattern matching or branching on the existence of an error value. Nobody can stop you from implementing `bind` in Go for your error (which I did in some places), but of course Rust "wins" with its `?`.