> When I speak casually on Hacker News, I think people know enough from my writing style to not get triggered and write long analytic responses (but clearly, that's not always true).

If your "causal speech" is lying, then I don't think the problem is someone getting "triggered", I think it is because you lied.

> write long analytic responses

I'll concede that I'm verbose, but this isn't Twitter. I'd rather have real conversations.