Because you are attributing things that are common in enterprise environments (Bazel, monorepos, and Protobufs) to Go. It's fine if you hate these things, but saying that these are the defaults of Go isn't right, and I bet that's why people are hating on you. There's nothing default about them in Go. If you work with enterprise-y code, it shouldn't be surprising that a lot of them are going to follow Google's steps.
The opposite seems true (regarding Go being over-fitted to Google problems).
It was designed for Google, but Google has not adopted it widely. Google is still heavily C++ and Java after all these years. The outside world loves it way more. Kubernetes isn't used internally at Google (except Cloud, which is not any different from any other cloud provider) though it's sponsored by Google. Bazel is probably in a similar boat.
Being designed to solve Google problems doesn't mean that it actually solves Google problems well, or that Google thinks it does.
I became introduced to Go through my startup and my experience was it a delight to work with in very small teams.
True for the early days of Go but I don't know about now. I think the switch started happening right after modules came out. Generics and the new range stuff seem more for the sake of growing the language than specific needs in Google.