Not defending their specific course of action here, but you should probably try to wade into the linked discussion (https://github.com/python/cpython/issues/84559). Looks like the push to disable warnings (in 3.13) is mostly coming from one guy.
While it’s not perfect, I know a few other people people who do “set up lots of data structures, including in libraries, then make use of the fact multiprocessing uses fork to duplicate them”. While fork always has sharp edges, it’s also long been clearly documented that’s the behavior on Linux.
I'm pretty sure that significantly more people were burned by fork being the default with no actual benefit to their code, whether because of the deadlocks etc that it triggers in multithreaded non-fork-aware code, or because their code wouldn't work correctly on other platform. Keeping it there as an option that one can explicitly enable for those few cases where it's actually useful and with full understanding of consequences is surely the better choice for something as high-level as Python.
However, changing the default silently just means people's code is going to change behaviour between versions, or silently break if someone with an older version runs their code. At this point, it's probably better to just require people give an explicit choice (they can even make one of the choice names be 'default' or something, to make life easy for people who don't really care).
I'm with you on undesirability of silent change of behavior. But requiring people to make an explicit choice would immediately break a lot more code, because now all the (far more numerous) instances of code that genuinely doesn't care one way or another won't run at all without changes - and note that for packages, this also breaks anyone depending on them, requiring a fix that is not even in their code. So it's downsides either way, and which one is more disruptive to the ecosystem depends on the proportion of code affected in different ways. I assume that they did look at existing Python code out in the wild to get at least an eyeball estimate of that when making the decision.
> posix_spawn() now accepts None for the env argument, which makes the newly spawned process use the current process environment
That is the thing about fork(), spawn(), and even system() being essential wrappers around clone() in glibc and musl.
You can duplicate the behavior of fork() without making the default painful for everyone else.
In musl systems() calls posix_spawn() which calls clone().
All that changes is replacing a legacy call fork() that is nothing more than a legacy convenience alias with real issues and foot guns with multiple threads.