Thanks for sharing this link. I'm also a entrepreneur and a software engineer, in a some what similar situation.
As I sit on my couch across from my 30 yr old wife (who is pregnant) and my 3 yr old son I opened this link with an eerie feeling. When Alexis started talking about his mother, first though in my mind was 'he is gonna say it is cancer'. Then when I saw the screen of it being a brain tumor, it felt surreal.
About a month ago, my wife had a grade IV glioblastoma removed, and is now undergoing 6 weeks of daily chemo and radiation, followed by scheduled delivery @ 34 weeks, followed by more radiation on her spine (her gleo has PNET like attributes). We are extremely lucky that she is/was a nurse at one of the best hospitals in the world (mayo clinic).
While my dreams of owning my own successful company have been put on hold to focus on my family, this story has helped me put aside some of my own internal guilt of still wanting to do that someday.
Wow. I'm so sorry. This sounds all too familiar. I wish you and your family all the best. For what it's worth, I'm happy my story could connect with you, but I know we all have our own unique burdens, may it ease yours even just a bit.
My dad's pride in what I do is what helps me keep going. I remember before he died being at a family reunion and him introducing me to family members that I've never met as follows:
"This is my son, he's gonna be big someday."
That's how I felt when my grandfather was still alive. He saw the world in me and it felt awesome to prove him right so often growing up.
After he passed, things changed and now it's almost the complete opposite fueling me now. I look at how close-minded, hateful, and worthless my parents are and bust my ass to prove to everyone that I'm not going to turn out like them.
A father who's proud of his son? What's that like? I imagine it could make a pretty big difference in one's motivation and outlook, but lack direct experience.
Now, you will find it is rather harder than it looks. Maybe your father was truly lousy, there are some like that out there. But it won't hurt you to reserve the possibility of seeing him some generosity, at least until you have done better.
If someday you can say you've done better for your children than was done for you, you'll be saying a lot.
After the third presentation of a link to this story, I tried it. Something caught my attention for a moment, and when I glanced back I was mid way into the story. Never mind the content of the story: the production of the video is pure emotional manipulation. I don't care what the content is, when I see such blatant emotional manipulation, my alarms go off. I'm not crass, I know true life pain - but using it like this for commercial gain really smells.
I met alexis during a a meetup event in NYC and I had no idea that this was a part of his story. I love both reddit and hipmunk and I hope he continues to make cool products!
A touching film. I'm not sure the effect when it suddenly went to black-and-white and the camera got all jerky, out-of-focus really worked though. I really found it distracting, although I still enjoyed it overall.
As I sit on my couch across from my 30 yr old wife (who is pregnant) and my 3 yr old son I opened this link with an eerie feeling. When Alexis started talking about his mother, first though in my mind was 'he is gonna say it is cancer'. Then when I saw the screen of it being a brain tumor, it felt surreal.
About a month ago, my wife had a grade IV glioblastoma removed, and is now undergoing 6 weeks of daily chemo and radiation, followed by scheduled delivery @ 34 weeks, followed by more radiation on her spine (her gleo has PNET like attributes). We are extremely lucky that she is/was a nurse at one of the best hospitals in the world (mayo clinic).
While my dreams of owning my own successful company have been put on hold to focus on my family, this story has helped me put aside some of my own internal guilt of still wanting to do that someday.
Thanks for sharing your story Alexis.