I think the problem you're describing might be a symptom of coding as the first step instead of the last. I find once I specify a problem and my proposed solution in sufficient detail, the structure of the code becomes obvious. This is best done with the various tools of human communication--visual diagrams, prose, mathematics, and algorithmic descriptions in the form of pseudocode. Only then, when I sufficiently understand what I'm actually trying to do, should I actually start writing code in a programming language. Otherwise I get pigeonholed into some half-baked idea by the various rigours of the language itself. Writing code before I truly understand what I'm trying to accomplish, I've learned over time, is an awfully costly form of premature optimization.

EDIT: I don't mean to suggest programming languages aren't tools of human communication--they absolutely are. In fact, that's their primary purpose--to communicate ideas about the structure of a computation to other programmers. But starting with structural ideas about the implementation rather than conceptual ones about the nature of the problem and the shape the solution should therefore take is putting the cart before the horse.