The second solution doesn't have the ball land behind you before you throw it... It has the ball emerge from the ground, from the orbit it was in, on its way up to your hand.
What both solutions correspond to is the completion of the orbit the ball is briefly in while it is in free fall, in both directions. Every body in free fall (ignoring air resistance) is for that time in orbit around the center of gravity of the Earth. It's just the the body can not complete that orbit due to the fact it impacts the ground, and in the time-reversed direction, couldn't have come from that orbit initially because of the ground.
It's not mystery getting in the way of the equations, it's the physical ground.
(There are many other deviations from the highly idealized "orbit the Earth as if it was a stationary body in perfect Newtonian physics" but compared to air resistance you will not be able to witness any of those effects with anything you can throw with your arm from the ground.)
What both solutions correspond to is the completion of the orbit the ball is briefly in while it is in free fall, in both directions. Every body in free fall (ignoring air resistance) is for that time in orbit around the center of gravity of the Earth. It's just the the body can not complete that orbit due to the fact it impacts the ground, and in the time-reversed direction, couldn't have come from that orbit initially because of the ground.
It's not mystery getting in the way of the equations, it's the physical ground.
(There are many other deviations from the highly idealized "orbit the Earth as if it was a stationary body in perfect Newtonian physics" but compared to air resistance you will not be able to witness any of those effects with anything you can throw with your arm from the ground.)