I think Tesla managed to really tap into that "something new" in the world of cars where things are very homogenized. Fans were happy to be the beta testers, for a long time.
Having said that, I'm with you, for me my car takes me from place to place, that's all I want.
Tesla's done the same brilliant job GM did in the 80s of demonstrating why ostentatious novelty in the auto industry tends rare, and I think for most of the same reasons.
... but now, the "something new" isn't that new anymore. The model 3 looks similar today to how it looked in 2018 right? And in some places, they're everywhere.
I can see how the more recently released EV models from other manufacturers feel newer, haven't had the same quality control PR disasters as Tesla, and don't have a CEO who is a giant political liability.
Having said that, I'm with you, for me my car takes me from place to place, that's all I want.