Addition vs multiplication is a bad and useless thing to talk about. It's a waste of time. It's much more useful to talk about what number you get at the end. You might get that number from adding once, or twice, or even more times, but that final number is the actual thing you need to understand and "addition vs multiplication" just gives absolutely no information or insights whatsoever.

They're just different names for different things. Not caring that they're different things makes communication difficult. Why do that to people you intend to communicate with?