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> For instance I was on a long haul flight earlier this year, and my neighbour told me everything about her divorce. Like a kind of therapy.

this gets old fast, it's like being emotionally vomited on.





Only if the person is unable to tell if you’re actually engaged or just humoring them. Most people are actually pretty good at reading social cues.

sometimes.

I remember talking to a doctor once (in a social situation). We were talking about non doctor things and he mentioned that most people find out he's a doctor and start talking about medical issues.

I think this happens to some people (doctors, lawyers, police).

And to a smaller extent it happens to all of us (sometimes). Older people might talk about divorce, or their operations, or their kids.


That's a very negative reaction.

I enjoy helping others, and I like hearing someone's life story. Not everyone needs to like that though, people are different.

Hearing the same story from the same person can be very tiring and I have family members like that, but with strangers it's a different person, different context, different story.




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