Is there an effective anti-IR coating for eyeglasses like there is for UV? Seems like a good thing to have but a web search doesn't turn up much. It might interfere with facial recognition, but maybe that's a feature.
Any laser light strong enough to damage your vision, might also pass through a optical coating. Distance can attenuate the strength, but really the only defense is proper rated glasses for the spectrum.
Thin films of gold are reflective in the infrared and transparent in blue/green optical wavelengths. Gold can be applied to most surfaces by various physical vapor deposition processes in a vacuum.